tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21095680544216670892024-03-13T04:56:30.488-04:00Freckles in Our Eyesmelanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-39385710454450178142013-05-20T11:24:00.001-04:002013-05-20T11:24:24.720-04:00Pregnant Until Proven OtherwiseWhen we left off, mine and Brad's reproductive goods had been gathered and combined. We had fertilization! The doctor's called me the day after retrieval to let me know that 19 eggs had been retrieved, 14 were mature enough to be fertilized, and 11 had become embryos!<br />
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Brad and I were looking at a potential 11 children. Joey Lawrence Whoa.<br />
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The office set up a tentative 3-day transfer, which would involve putting an embryo or two back in on Sunday. Sunday morning rolled around and I received a call that seven of our embryos were on their way to becoming blastocysts (this is a good thing) and that our transfer would be Tuesday. By Tuesday I was a nervous wreck. Brad's mom took me to the hospital this time. I could have driven myself, but Valium was involved again. <br />
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Let's talk for a second about how nice it was to get Valium throughout this process. Normal couples can get drunk and have a baby. I got lots of hospitals and needles, but I got Valium. <br />
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Brad's mom got to scrub up and come into the procedure room with me this time. I wasn't expecting that, but I didn't mind. My mix CD came in handy today, too, and we were rocking out when Brad came down. He scrubbed in and held my hand as we implanted two embryos. Just like that, we were pregnant until proven otherwise. <br />
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I was on bed rest for the next two days and we began the scary progesterone shots. However, they were nothing compared to the two-week wait (until our pregnancy test) that stretched out before us.melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-41854170750418940502013-01-16T09:06:00.002-05:002013-01-16T09:06:57.827-05:00Egg Free is the Way to BeI had my egg retrieval on December 13. I know, you're so excited that I'm yet again blogging about IVF. :)<br />
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For those who aren't sick of hearing about my reproductive woes, here goes.<br />
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I got the call from my doctor Tuesday afternoon that we were a go for Thursday egg retrieval. That meant that I would take my normal shots at 8PM as well as an additional two shots at 11PM. People--I'm old. I wake up at 5:30AM for work, so I am definitely asleep by 11. I had to set a dang alarm for this shot. I was so paranoid that I had Brad set one, too.<br />
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That was an excellent move on my part because guess who shut off the alarm as a minor nuisance in her sleep? This lady. <br />
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Anyway, took my shots like a champ and went back to bed.<br />
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Brad went to work as normal the next morning and I waited for my dad to arrive to drive me to the hospital. Luckily, Brad works at the hospital where my doctor and all procedures are, so it works out nicely. <br />
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You know what else works out nicely? Valium. I got to take a valium upon arrival at the hospital along with the smallest sip of water. Then, I was taken to my "room" to put on the gown and wait. Dad waited with me and kept me calm. The valium probably helped with that, too. <br />
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When the doctor's were ready, I was taken to the procedure room. When they called to schedule this, they encouraged me to bring some music to listen to. I made a lovely mix CD of songs that reminded me of Brad and why we were doing this and it began to play when I was brought to the procedure room. The hooked up the pain meds to my IV to help keep me sedated and pain-free. A man named Steve opened a trap door from next door (the lab) and had me verify my name and birth date. Steve's job was to take the eggs, fertilize them, and grow them in my petri dish.<br />
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The retrieval itself is a bit fuzzy, as it should be, but recovery was a little rough. While I was still at the hospital, I managed to almost pass out and I did get sick. Dad stuck with me and Brad came to visit for awhile, so I felt well-cared for. Just rough. After they released me, I laid on the couch at home with Dad nearby. He wanted to stay with me until Brad got home from work. I was OK once I was released and I slept for a bit. <br />
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I had made it through that part and I had the knowledge that our children were conceived while Brad was at work and I was hanging out with my dad. How many people can say that?melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-91720218668346784692012-12-11T11:49:00.001-05:002012-12-11T11:49:32.676-05:00Ovaries Like FootballsI know I've been a total slacker about writing and I apologize. I've been a little busy, though, giving myself shots every night and winning battles with the insurance company.<br />
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Last you heard, the insurance company had informed us that we had zero coverage for IVF and they sincerely apologized for two months worth of telling us that we did. Well, that was ridiculous to me and we continued to fight. I asked for a document to review with my lawyer (not an empty threat) and they came back with a settlement offer. A very nice offer. We reviewed that with the lawyer and Brad and I agreed to sign it. They gave us the maximum infertility benefit as a lump sum in exchange for dropping the fight and agreeing to not submit claims. We're still waiting on the check (last I heard, it was mailed on Friday) and I'm so excited. The settlement is enough to pay for two tries and the new dining room chairs we ordered. Priorities, people.<br />
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While we were in the midst of fighting with insurance, Brad's parents loaned us the money we needed to start the process. I was on birth control pills for three weeks in order to regulate my cycle and then I began nightly injections on November 30. For one week, I had nightly injections of Follistim. I began at 150 units, but had to double the dose in order to see results. Beginning on December 3, I've had every other day ultrasounds and bloodwork to check progress. I added another shot--Ganirelix-- on December 7. I've done really well with giving myself shots, which is a huge deal. My poor stomach has little bruises and I'm bloated, but I'm surviving and thriving. <br />
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At this point, I have around 16-20 follicles of varying sizes happening. Most are mature, which means they're huge. It hurts to sit sometimes and I'm wearing dresses the rest of the week for comfort purposes. Hence the title of the post. I know they're not really the size of footballs, but they feel big. I've also had to increase my fluid intake to keep headaches at bay. And I cry. A lot. Pretty much, I'm a mess. I'm so optimistic about this, though, that it makes up for it. I'm going to add my trigger shot tonight or tomorrow and they'll harvest and fertilize my eggs on Thursday or Friday. That means that implantation could occur as early as Sunday or Monday. Guys, it's happening. We're moving forward.<br />
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I will keep you updated as we learn new things, but expect maybe some silence or fluff posts around January until we're OK sharing the news (either way it goes). Oh, and because they're gorgeous, here's our new chairs that United Healthcare paid for. Brad's dad is building us a dining room table for Christmas and I'm beyond excited for that, too. More frequent dinner parties are for sure in my future.<br />
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We gathered five vials to freeze. They like to shoot for three vials, so Brad did wonderfully. Both the urologist and the lab immediately found the presence of sperm. Brad slept most of yesterday away and hasn't had to take any pain medication. He is a trooper! I know he's just thrilled that it went well and his part is completed.<br />
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My part is next. I'll start on the medication protocol in the next week or so and we'll go from there. Brad's parents are loaning us the $8250 we need for the IVF and I'm still fighting with United Health Care in order to recoup most of that money. Brad's procedure yesterday was $1200 and we plan on fighting with United Health Care for that and also relying on our flex spending account. Once we pay the doctor the $8250, they'll go ahead and prescribe my medications. Normally, they would run around $4,000. However, I was asked yesterday to be part of a research study looking at success rates for control women, obese women with PCOS, and lean women with PCOS. Apparently, it's hard to find women for the lean PCOS group, so they really need me. It doesn't mess with my success rates and pays for $2800 of my medications. There's an extra blood draw and a procedure to measure the size of my uterus (which I've been warned can be similar in discomfort level to the HSG x-ray). I'm in, I think.<br />
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I'm sorry for the sporadic updates. I'm still trying to figure out a balance in my life right now between work, Brad, IVF, and adoption training. Stay with me, please. I think it'll be worth it.melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-6303650738944096622012-10-24T07:41:00.001-04:002012-10-31T08:31:05.161-04:00Cat Bounce?Seriously, go <a href="http://cat-bounce.com/" target="_blank">here</a>. You can thank me later.<br />
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Melaniemelanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-23181792029649575052012-10-15T13:27:00.000-04:002012-10-31T08:31:40.733-04:00Scheduling a Date NightDo you ever schedule a date night with your significant other or, after living together/being married/dating forever, does it just not really happen? <br />
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I have felt pulled in a million directions lately and I feel like my time with Brad has suffered. He feels that way, too. I don't want that. I don't want him to hurt because I'm not there. I don't want to NOT be with him. He is my favorite.<br />
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We scheduled time to hang out tonight, Wednesday, and Friday. It won't all be completely fun movie/dinner kind of stuff, but we just need any time together. Tonight we're tackling laundry and grocery shopping. We are also tackling our office this week. Our first home visit is scheduled for next week (Oct 24) and we'd like to make a dent in turning the office into a bedroom. We also need to clean and lock up medicines and booze, but Rome wasn't built in a day, y'all.<br />
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Our to-do list is overwhelming at times and we have dear friends going through their own hard times. We want to be productive and caring, but I think we need to hole up and play board games together. We need to sit down and eat dinner at the table. We need to ask how the day was and listen to the answer. We need to take the time to give an answer. <br />
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Above all, Brad and I are in this together. Even if/when we're blessed with children, they'll grow up and move out. Friends are there, but they have their own needs, too. We need to be sure to nourish our love and friendship. (Not that we don't. Please don't get the wrong idea. It's just something we're working on doing more.)<br />
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What do you do when life gets really crazy and hectic? Have you ever scheduled a date night?melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-60914423222149115652012-10-05T11:16:00.000-04:002012-10-31T08:31:53.628-04:00Currently...So, I haven't really written here in a while and a lot has happened. <br />
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On September 16th, Brad and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary. We ate cake, bought me some flowers, ran out of gas on the highway, and had an amazing dinner overlooking Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky. We didn't let the baby stuff get in our way and I'm so glad for that. I love that man so much. He is my favorite.<br />
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We had talked about adopting well before we even tried having a baby, so it wasn't any surprise to us that we went ahead with investigating that as an option. We've been attending our training class for three weeks now and look to be approved by February or March. The program we're going through will lead us through a straight adoption or a foster-to-adopt situation. The state of Kentucky pays for all costs associated with adoption, so that is saving us $20,000-$30,000. We like knowing that our approval will be in place so that we can adopt when we're ready.</div>
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We've also been chugging along with infertility treatments. I've been doing my homework with our insurance carrier to ensure coverage and even had appointments lined up. My insurance company set up a telephone conference with me for this past Monday just so we could clarify coverage. Overall, IVF was covered, but I was getting some inconsistencies as to the nuts and bolts of covered procedures. Well, on Monday they called to clarify that IVF IS NOT A COVERED PROCEDURE. </div>
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I was pissed. I had two months of countless telephone calls (kept in a notebook with representative's name and reference number of call) that had confirmed coverage. Now, they were taking it all away and offering me a simple, "Sorry." I'm still so, so angry. The lady that I spoke with encouraged me to appeal and cited all of the documentation that I had. </div>
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Long story short, Brad and I are making a go of this this winter. We're scheduling the appointment to extract his sperm and I will start the first round of self-injectables in about seven weeks. By the time we do our first injectables, I need to pay the office $9,000. That doesn't count the $1800 for Brad's procedure ($1200 if he just does this with a local anesthesia) or the drugs I'll need (around $4,000). The cost is huge. One of my drugs is $3,000 alone. The office can obtain samples of that, but they're not sure they'll have them in time for me. </div>
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I'm a wreck at work. I don't feel like I'm doing my job to the best of my ability. Most people around me know what is going on and, in a women-majority workforce, they understand and help me out. It still doesn't mean that I feel good about it. I am trying to relax at this point. I'm going to start crafting the appeal letter now so that I have the letter and accompanying documentation ready to be mailed when we finish procedures in late December/early January. </div>
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The part that still creeps to the front of my mind when I'm trying to work and live my life is that there is no guarantee. Brad wants this to be a one-shot deal and I support him in that. He is supporting me through trying it once. Not only is the financial cost huge (and I hope to recoup $9000 of that back from the appeal), but the emotional cost is greater. We're going to ask for two embryos to be implanted, but there is no guarantee that we'll get good embryos to implant or that either one of them will stick. I am gearing myself up for that because I will still need to go through the appeal process. It will nearly break me, I'm sure, to appeal and fight for a failed IVF attempt. The emotional scars will be great. </div>
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I guess I'm asking for support right now. I need prayers. I need snark about insurance companies. I need letters of support and hugs. I need money. If you can help with any of the above, I'll be happy to give you my address. There is nothing better than getting a card in the mail and knowing that someone cares. I have two of those cards and they live in my files and doctor notes as a reminder that Brad and I are strong enough to get through this. That we're not the only ones going through it. </div>
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Thank you for reading this. I know a lot of people are curious as to how everything is going. I'm going crazy over here and trying to be strong. It's hard to write about everything, but I'm trying to keep you all updated. I still feel like we are supposed to share our story and I'm still working out how to best do that.</div>
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melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-47062636412265675412012-09-21T11:02:00.002-04:002012-10-31T08:32:03.852-04:00My Blog, ElsewhereGuys, I am going to be blogging for The Bump a few times a week, so please check out that site for updates on the infertility journey.<br />
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You can check out my first post <a href="http://blog.thebump.com/2012/09/21/im-starting-ivf-wish-me-luck/" target="_blank">here</a>.melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-57398997833060153872012-09-12T15:03:00.000-04:002012-09-12T15:03:11.915-04:00Bad Day? Get a mani/pedi!<br />
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My Monday started out kind of blah. I had spent the weekend without my sunglasses (couldn't find them) and without my wedding rings (at the jeweler's for re-dipping and cleaning). I had spent Sunday with a hangover and wasn't quite as productive as I wanted to be. But, Monday didn't stay blah for long.<br />
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When I got to work I discovered that my sunglasses were in my desk drawer the whole time. Wonderful! Then, around 10am, I received a text that my rings were ready to be picked up. Double Wonderful! Finally, I remembered that I had a mani/pedi appointment with my sister-in-law that evening to celebrate her recent birthday.<br />
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I scooted home from work to pick up my rings and meet Jen for our appointment. We picked up some peanut-butter-cookie-dough milkshakes and headed to the salon. I loved that they had the OPI Germany colors in and I selected "Every Month is Oktoberfest."<br />
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Our toes underwent all the greatness of a typical spa pedicure, plus a mud mask, paraffin dip, and special apple-cinnamon scented lotion. Our nails had the traditional awesome manicure features, plus a paraffin dip and special apple-cinnamon scented lotion. It was 2.25 hours of awesome and I think fondly of our time together. :)<br />
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I just have to schedule my Groupon massage from Brad and I'll be all pampered and happy. What have you treated yourself to lately?melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-43214470916941481122012-09-10T09:24:00.003-04:002012-09-10T09:24:39.554-04:00What I Wore to SchoolElizabeth of <a href="http://www.e-tells-tales.com/" target="_blank">E Tells Tales</a> has been posting her <a href="http://www.e-tells-tales.com/2012/09/what-i-wore-to-school-this-week-what-we.html" target="_blank">week of outfits</a> and what she and her kiddos <a href="http://www.e-tells-tales.com/2012/09/what-i-wore-to-school-this-week-what-we_8.html" target="_blank">did that week </a>in school and I love the idea. I don't teach, so I don't think you'll really be interested in what I did this past week, but I'd like to post some of what I wore. Elizabeth talked about how it would force her to get creative and not just stick to her favorites and that struck home with me. I want to be more creative with my outfits and maybe take a few more risks. With that said, here's what I wore to school last week:<br />
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<a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=243695" target="_blank">Ankle Zip Leggings</a><br />
Blue Boyfriend Shirt (<a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=34609&vid=1&pid=293071" target="_blank">similar here</a>) (the original came from Gap)<br />
Herringbone Loafers (<a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?searchCID=25781&vid=1&pid=253072&scid=253072002" target="_blank">similar here</a>) (the original came from Gap)<br />
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Necklace (<a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_category/jewelry/necklaces/PRDOVR~21982/21982.jsp" target="_blank">similar here</a>) (the original came from J. Crew factory)<br />
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Thursday:<br />
Skirt (the original came from Gap)<br />
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Necklace (handmade by student)<br />
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Friday:<br />
<a href="http://www.toms.com/womens/classics/navy-canvas-classics-shoes" target="_blank">Shoes</a><br />
Mid-Rise Skinny Jeans (<a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?searchCID=25781&vid=1&pid=286007&scid=286007002" target="_blank">similar here</a>) (the original came from Gap)<br />
Spirit Shirt<br />
ID badge<br />
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There it is. I loved my outfit on Thursday and it's easy to see how exhausted I was by Friday. What did you wear? What would you love to see me wear?melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-82597672042006783202012-09-05T15:05:00.000-04:002012-09-05T15:05:04.210-04:00Fantastic News<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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You guys, I got the BEST news today. United Health Care has added infertility benefits (finally!) and they cover IVF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
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I called them to verify what I saw in print online and I have the printed copy and the reference number for my call and they'll cover it. They'll even cover to store (freeze) reproductive materials, such as sperm and embryos. <br />
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I'm so happy I just want to shout it from the rooftops and cry all at the same time. This is such a blessing and a relief. <br />
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Thank you for any good thoughts and prayers. We still need them and appreciate all of the support. <br />
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<em>My niece and I are sad that summer is over. </em></div>
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School has started back and my summer is quickly becoming a distant memory. I'm not too sad because: a) I love my job and b) Summer will return in 10 months. Quick reminder--I work as a school psychologist in a high school and it is great. I have a lot more paperwork than I'd prefer, but I just adore working with my kids, who are largely of the special education population. <br />
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I do feel like I didn't have enough prep time for the year before being thrown back in and that has led to a dramatic increase in stress this week. I usually have a week or so to settle in, organize and review new files for the year, and map out a general workload for the year. No such luck this year as I am leading trainings, writing reports, and attending/leading parent meetings all in our first full week back. It's a little crazy and I just remind myself that you eat an elephant one bite at a time. It's something my mom reminded me of a lot my first year and helps me out during those busy crunch times. I think it's also why I find myself drawn to elephant jewelry lately...<br />
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An important part of all of this craziness is the fact that my desk/office is messy. And not just messy, but MESSY. I just want to clean and make it pretty so that I can work in there without feeling stressed. I'm hoping to just get through this week and then it'll get there. I guess this post is my way of apologizing for the sparse posting lately, but between school craziness and doctor/insurance nuttiness, I'm hoping you understand.<br />
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I'm working on ideas for upcoming posts, such as this weekend's upcoming wedding (yay for mini family reunions!) and mushiness surrounding the first wedding anniversary. It's coming up on September 16th--get pumped. :)<br />
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Finally, I have been noticing a lot more page views and I wanted to welcome any new readers. Thank you for reading. I hope you stick around. :) Please comment so I can know who you are and take a peek at your blog if you have one. melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-79180760428121729592012-08-27T09:10:00.002-04:002012-08-27T09:10:18.538-04:00.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My heart is full of love this morning for Ashley Ann and her family today. Please go check out her <a href="http://ashleyannphotography.com/blog/2012/08/27/beauty-full-day/">blog</a>.melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-52824934549848852322012-08-22T21:48:00.000-04:002012-08-23T09:04:36.035-04:00Fertility UpdateI'm sorry, guys. I feel like I've abandoned you, but I needed the break. I have lots that I want to share with you, such as how the rest of summer was, first day of school (students started back today!) and updates from some other things. However, I wanted to let you know how things are going on the baby front. I feel like I dumped a bomb on you and then never came back to help clean up the pieces. My bad.<br />
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Also, please note that this will not turn into a fertility blog. I just write about everything and anything going on in my life and this is a pretty big part right now. I also still feel like Brad and I are very much supposed to share our story.<br />
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OK, so when we left off, we had just heard initial notes from the doctors. We have come so far since then. <br />
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August 7, 2012: Brad saw a urologist who officially diagnosed CBAVD (Congenital Bilateral Absence of the Vas Deferens) (laymens' terms--he has no tube to carry sperm out of the body). Brad may be a carrier of the cystic fibrosis gene or he may only have one kidney--both are linked to CBAVD. We are waiting on the Dr. to put in the order for an ultrasound for Brad. Brad's hormone levels are also a little low, so the urologist prescribed Clomid. The plan for Brad is to take the Clomid for three months in preparation for sperm extraction. The doctor's refer to this as "testicular aspiration" and I think that sounds ridiculous. They're going to knock him out and take sperm. Call it like it is, people.<br />
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August 15, 2012: We consulted with a fertility doctor who specializes in artificial insemination (also called IUI). He ordered a lot of blood work and procedures for me to finish out the diagnosis for my side of things. So far, I know that my estradiol and FSH are good. I also know that I am heterozygous for the MTHFR gene, which is involved with blood clots. That gene puts me at a higher risk for developing blood clots, but it turns out that another of my factors is wonky (will update when I know the name <span style="color: red;">Update: It is the anticardiolipin antibody IGM that is elevated.</span>) is a more significant risk. I also had an x-ray today (8/22) called an HSG. They injected contrast dye into my business and x-rayed to make sure that all my tubes and uterus are open and inviting. Good news--they are. We are still waiting on some of the blood work to come back (including my CF gene testing). Current medications: Prenatal with DHA, Vitamin D, Calcium, MTHFR capsule. Also, he explained why we would need to investigate IVF (which he doesn't do)--sperm goes through its final maturation period in the vas deferens. When it is extracted before going through that, it's like pulling out tadpoles when you need frogs. The sperm aren't great swimmers and won't be able to make it to an egg. That rules out not only IUI, but regular IVF. We would need IVF with ICSI. In everyday words, IVF puts eggs and sperm in a petri dish and plays the love-making music. With ICSI, scientists will literally place a sperm in an egg and make the magic happen.<br />
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August 22, 2012: In addition to the HSG x-ray this morning, I consulted with an IVF doctor this afternoon. He went over a lot of the history (which I'm getting a little sick of sharing) and then did an ultrasound (my second this week). He said everything looked great and even did a mock implantation to see if my systems are open to IVF. They are. The Dr. explained that for the first go, they would implant one embryo. I have over a 50% chance of that resulting in a "take-home baby" (their words). If subsequent rounds of IVF are needed, they will start with any frozen embryos we have and implant up to two. My chance of "take-home baby" are around 38%. I met with the financial adviser, too, to see exactly what we were looking at.<br />
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The group offers a money-back guarantee IVF, but we aren't eligible for that since we have to surgically extract the sperm. So, the first round of IVF will cost us $9200 (plus the cost of drugs, which can reach $2,000-$3,000). My plan is to call insurance tomorrow to see exactly which pieces they will and will not cover. Then, I want to start baking for a Bake Sale for Babies. Ha. The financial piece is big. I'm trying not to focus on it, but Brad and I certainly don't have $9200 for IVF, plus whatever other pieces we'll need, such as sperm banking and embryo freezing. I'm not sure how we'll come up with the money, but I know that neither of us want money to stand in the way of having a baby.<br />
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*Sigh* There's all the official things we've done since finding out the initial news. We've also talked with friends who we have found out are facing the same issues and coworkers who have gone through similar struggles and emerged with children. So far, we have yet to talk to anyone who has gone through IVF. I'm also struggling with anger and frustration. I'm getting really upset while reading facebook and twitter if one of my friends is complaining about morning sickness or pregnancy discomforts. I am doing a pretty good job of biting my tongue because I am so happy for them and I love them. I know they aren't trying to hurt me. I also know that I'm frustrated and angry with what Brad and I have to go through--I'm not mad that they're pregnant, but I'm hurt that I'm not.<br />
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Again, I feel like I'm not explaining all my feelings very well. I'm sorry. I'll try to work on that, but it is not easy to explain the myriad of emotions I feel (sometimes in five minutes' time). Please feel free to ask questions.<br />
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1. <a href="http://www.dooney.com/OA_HTML/ibeCCtpSctDspRte.jsp?section=59886">Dooney & Bourke Blair Bag</a><br />
2. <a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_factory_category/allnew/PRDOVR~91603/99102782484/ENE~1+2+3+22+4294967294+20~15~~205+17+4294966720~15~~~~~~~/91603.jsp">J. Crew Factory Popover Blouse</a><br />
3. <a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=253067">Gap Herringbone Loafers</a><br />
4.<a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_category/skirts/mini/PRDOVR~90289/90289.jsp"> J. Crew City Mini</a><br />
5. <a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_feature/NewArrivals/pants/PRDOVR~95977/95977.jsp">J. Crew Matchstick Cord</a><br />
6.<a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=62659&pid=913684"> Gap Cherry Print Dress</a><br />
7. <a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=56991&vid=1&pid=253064&scid=253064032">Gap Suede Loafers</a><br />
8.<a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_factory_category/allnew/PRDOVR~91656/99102744392/ENE~1+2+3+22+4294967294+20~15~~205+17+4294966720~15~~~~~~~/91656.jsp"> J. Crew Factory Popover Blouse-Striped</a><br />
9. <a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_factory_category/sweaters/PRDOVR~32714/99102754912/ENE~1+2+3+22+4294967294+20~~~205+17+4294966719~15~~~~~~~/32714.jsp">J. Crew Factory V-Neck</a><br />
10. <a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=34609&vid=1&pid=202386&scid=202386002">Gap Western Shirt</a><br />
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What are you loving for fall?<br />
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Maybe the balcony isn't so much "House Tour" as it is an item from the <a href="http://melanieandbrad.blogspot.com/2012/06/summer-wish-list.html" target="_blank">Summer Wish List</a>. Our balcony, hidden by orange-striped curtains, was a mess. I had flower pots that only contained dirt, I had flower pots with a few weeds, and I had flower pots with cracked mason jars inside. Our table had no umbrella. The balcony was just not a welcoming area.</div>
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I really wanted to buy an umbrella, but Brad asked me to hold off until I got rid of the old flower pots and cleaned it up a little. I'm a fan of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premack's_principle" target="_blank">Premack principle</a>, so I agreed. However, I was at Ikea with my mom and sister when an umbrella was found. We were near the checkouts when my sister spotted the bin of $10 umbrellas. Yes, you read that right--$10. I was originally looking for a neutral, tan umbrella, but couldn't pass up a savings of $50-$60 over other umbrellas. I took home a striped umbrella that doesn't match anything. :) Our base, which isn't pictured, came from Target.</div>
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Once I got home, I immediately started in on the cleaning portion and was pleased with how quickly it went. I'm sure it's against the rules, but I dumped old dirt off the side of my balcony. Whoops. I threw away the mason jar pieces and, once cleaned, the old pots went into storage. That left us with three actively growing plants. One, not pictured, sits in the far right corner where we get the most shade. One is attached to the balcony rail and the last is sitting on a little table. You can see in the above picture that my terrariums were also hanging out on the balcony soaking up some sunshine. </div>
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I love that an easy twenty minutes or so was all that stood between me and a balcony I wanted to hang out on. I have been enjoying my breakfast outside on most days and, when the weather isn't unbearable, Brad and I have our lunch or dinner outside, too. The fit is a little tight, but we do have a fourth chair for the balcony that we can bring out if needed. For the future, I'd love to have more plants, but I have to do some research about what to grow, I think. I don't have a very green thumb.</div>
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<br />melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-74893982370876279182012-07-20T07:30:00.000-04:002012-07-23T18:45:51.897-04:00TryingBrad and I have been trying to get pregnant since the beginning of the year. Instead of this being a post about how happy we are about an upcoming arrival, I am writing to let you know that we are feeling anything but happy right now. However, I feel like we are supposed to share this journey, so please bear with me.<br />
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After six months of unsuccessfully trying to get pregnant, my doctor asked us to go through some routine testing. I simply had to have my blood drawn on day 21 of my (irregular) cycle while Brad had to undergo a semen analysis. My results came back first and my doctor informed me that my progesterone levels were so low that he didn't believe that I was ovulating. He recommended Clomid, but wanted to have Brad's results before we moved forward. We were disheartened by this, but not too badly. My sister had been through the same sort of thing and now has two beautiful girls. I half expected that I might need a little extra help. Brad's results came around a week later. I was putting away dishes when he came to me and said that the doctor called. The sadness filling his eyes told me a lot, but I needed to know what the doctor said. We were both crying as he told me that there were no sperm in his sample. The doctor also noted that he couldn't feel the tubes designed to carry sperm. He recommended that Brad make an appointment with a specialist.<br />
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Brad and I have a lot of questions about what will happen. We are sad, distraught, angry, and hopeful. As we cried over the news, we both talked about the unfairness of the situation and how much we wanted to be parents. I cried over the possibility of never being pregnant. Brad cried over feelings of blame. We've been a wreck all week, really. We talked about adopting, which is something we've talked about before. We never thought adoption might be our only option, though, and that is a hard pill to swallow. We started talking about options we know are out there (sperm bank, in vitro fertilization, etc.) and what lines we might not want to cross. We talked to our parents and siblings. We talked and prayed with our pastors. Limbo is the worst spot to be in. Brad and I are trying really hard to hold off on discussing options until we know what the options really are.<br />
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I want to type more about how this feels, but I don't know how. Also, it just hurts. It hurts when people have been telling us for six months to do it on such-and-such days or assume that they got pregnant first try and we would, too. It hurts when we're asked when we'll be having kids. It hurts to see friends and family share their pregnant news or photos of their babies. It doesn't mean that we're angry with those who ask about expanding our little family. We know they mean well. It also doesn't mean that we're not happy for those expecting babies or cuddling their new babies. We love babies and are so happy for the joy they bring. We are just in a state of questioning. I no longer assume I'll be pregnant, but I do believe that Brad and I will have kids one day.
If you have a story of your own to share, please do. Brad and I figure that we're not alone in this, but we've never heard of a story quite like ours. Please feel free to comment or to email me at melaniemcb at gmail dot com.<br />
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P.S. If you are family/close friend and are learning about this through the blog, please understand that it is very hard to rehash again and again. We love you and wanted you to know what we're going through, but it is so hard to talk about over and over. Thank you for understanding.melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-44968382517206074932012-07-18T07:30:00.000-04:002012-07-18T07:30:05.902-04:00House Tour: Dining Room<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
Welcome to the dining room! As you may recall, this area opens up into the living room. Maybe one day I'll make up a floor plan in Paint or something for you. Anyway, how about more pictures less talking?</div>
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This is the view as you enter from the hallway or as you turn around on the couch. Our table usually isn't pushed against the wall, but is helpful when vacuuming. We have two additional chairs--wooden and fold-up-- that we break out for company. Buying a new table and chairs is on my wish list, but I have expensive taste and I think we'll be waiting awhile. Ugh.</div>
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Here's a closer look at our artwork. All except the right-most poster were purchased from <a href="http://www.phfdesign.com/" target="_blank">Powerhouse Factories</a>, a local company. The poster on the right is from a CD release party for <a href="http://aaronbmay.com/" target="_blank">our friend's</a> band.</div>
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This little guy was printed by an art teacher within my district. It hangs to the left of the kitchen entry. This was one of the first songs that my niece, Macey, learned to sing and I still hear her little voice when I see the print.</div>
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The green shelf (sorry about the quality of the photo) is from Brad's sister. We use it to house cookbooks, bobble heads, serving dishes, and larger items like the crockpot.</div>
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Here are some of my favorite serving dishes. The tiny birds are actually salt and pepper shakers.</div>
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Our cake topper has been snuck in here for safe keeping, too.</div>
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<br />melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-22549045811578763382012-07-16T07:30:00.000-04:002012-07-16T07:30:00.597-04:00Pinteresting--DIY Drink CoastersDo you have a board of crafts or DIY projects on your Pinterest account? How many of those have you actually attempted? I definitely haven't tried enough of what I've got pinned, so my friend Ellen and I got together Friday afternoon to reminisce about her recent wedding (yay, professional pictures!) and tackle a small project.<br />
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We made drink coasters. Yes, it is as ridiculously easy as it sounds. The pin (which links to a now-defunct blog) said that we just needed the sixteen-cent tiles from Lowe's, 4x4 squares of scrapbook paper, and Modge Podge. You can also get some felt circles for the bottoms of your coasters. We gathered all of our supplies for around $8-$9. We had to buy tiles, felt circles, and Modge Podge.<br />
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Once we got back to Ellen's, we cut out our 4x4 squares of paper. We put down an initial coat of Modge Podge on the tile, stuck the paper on, and then put down two coats of Modge Podge on top (with some drying time). Like I said, easiest project ever. We were so thrilled with the results that we are trying to carve out another day to make more. :)<br />
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<i>Plain bisque tile transforms into super-cute coaster.</i></div>
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<br />melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-51878196898314669682012-07-13T11:22:00.000-04:002012-07-13T11:22:03.091-04:00House Tour: Living RoomI figure it's about time I posted some images of our apartment, especially since so much of it is looking pretty good. Also, I went on a cleaning rampage recently and felt the need to take pictures in case it's not that clean again for awhile. Honesty, right?<br />
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Anyway, here's the living room. If you remember, we<a href="http://www.gohausgo.com/2011/10/opp-a-neutral-eclectic-living-room/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+GoHausGo+%28Go%2C+haus%2C+go%21%29" target="_blank"> enlisted the help</a> of our friend, Emily, to help us design the space incorporate elements that Brad and I both love. Please click over to<a href="http://www.gohausgo.com/" target="_blank"> her blog</a> and see the amazing things she does to her own home.<br />
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When entering our apartment, you walk in the front door and turn left. From there you have the dining room/kitchen area to the left and the living room to the right. It's a pretty big space and we're usually amazed at how many people we can squeeze in there.<br />
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This is the view as soon as you face the living room. I feel like the back wall still needs something else, but I'm not sure what. Brad and I have debated getting another set of the round mirrors ($25 from Target) to help elongate, but we're not sure. Thoughts?<br />
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Here's another view of the living room. That hallway off to the right takes you to the front door and bedrooms. This view is also a shameless plug regarding my lovingly-constructed gallery wall. We're still waiting on two photos to be printed (hence the post-its that I'm sure only I notice), but here it is. I talked about it <a href="http://melanieandbrad.blogspot.com/2012/03/cussing-gallery-wall.html" target="_blank">before</a>, but this wall contains images from our engagement shoot and wedding. The tree was our guest book and the circular cross-stitch was our ring pillow.<br />
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Again, another view of the living room. That little orange table is from Crate and Barrel (sadly, it's no longer available). I love the pops of orange in our space and Brad loves all the neutrals. Also, I have permanently claimed the corner-spot of our sectional and it. is. fabulous. Seriously. How was I ever comfortable before?</div>
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It sounds so weird to say, but I love this little lamp. You can click<a href="http://melanieandbrad.blogspot.com/2011/12/living-room-update.html" target="_blank"> here</a> to see it in its original state, but it was just a $3 brown lamp from Goodwill when we started this journey. A little bit of sanding and some spray paint and we were in business. The tree wedge is a gift from Brad's parents to commemorate our wedding day. </div>
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We've been moving counter-clockwise around the living room and have now reached the reading nook. It's pretty sad looking out-of-context, but I do enjoy this corner. The print is a series of Picasso sketches from <a href="http://www.ikea.com/ca/en/" target="_blank">Ikea</a>, but I don't think it's available anymore. Also featured is the Poang chair and footrest from Ikea. We have a couple of "couch blankets" stacked on top of the footrest and a basket underneath for storing magazines and crochet projects.</div>
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Finally, we reach the curtains. These beasts, comprised of six panels of Ikea curtains, are hung to cover our patio doors. They were hand-painted over Christmas and I will never undertake this project again. First, we used the green painter's tape to mark off the to-be-orange areas. The green tape is fantastic and I continue to talk about it amazing abilities to this day. After marking off the areas, we mixed fabric medium in with orange acrylic paint from Michael's and commenced painting. We just did one coat and let it dry. Then, I tried ironing to "set" the paint, but that got boring really quickly and I decided to take a chance and wash them. Big mistake. After one time through the washer, I had dark orange and light orange striped curtains. After a few choice words and tears, I hauled the curtains (six wet panels at least six-feet-long each) to the laundromat near my mom's. She had quarters. We ran the curtains through the wash two more times before we were happy with the outcome and then dried those suckers on high to fully set the remaining paint. Sure, Brad and I got an orange spot here or there and if you get really close you can see some spots where the orange bled into the white, but they look fantastic hanging in the living room. When it's dark, the stripes look completely solid. When they're back-lit, the stripes take on the distressed vibe you see in the above picture. It is more evenly distressed, though, when you see it in person.</div>
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<br />melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-7889214415815045762012-06-27T10:13:00.002-04:002012-06-27T10:13:58.752-04:00Summer Wish ListInspired by<a href="http://www.e-tells-tales.com/2012/06/summer-list-link-up.html" target="_blank"> Elizabeth's post</a>, I sat down with Brad to compose our own summer list. Since Brad and I are both home during the day right now, we are in a unique position and I'm really enjoying this summer. I'm taking time to unplug and enjoy the sunshine. As a result, I'm really feeling at peace with myself, my marriage, and my choices. Anyway, here's our list:<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">1. Have a picnic. </span><br />
Brad's sister gave us a picnic basket at a wedding shower last year and I want us to get some use out of it this summer. We've got some great parks near us, as well as plans for hiking, so this should be easy to cross off.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">2. Clean up the balcony.</span><br />
We're in an apartment, so we can't do a whole lot, but we need to do <i>something</i>. Our balcony currently has table and chairs and a lot of plants. I need to clean up and arrange the plants, maybe get a small side table to set some on. I'd also love to get an umbrella for our table, so I have started scouring sales. Our apartment in on the top floor, so our balcony has zero shade. I'd really love to have an oasis we love using.<br />
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I have to finish my paintings and I'd like to hang curtains. Otherwise, it's just a matter of cleaning it up. <br />
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This is not a specific, measurable goal and the behavioral psychologist in me is cringing. However, I don't want to go crazy with this. I just want to incorporate some healthier food choices into my diet and move more.This is a shared goal for Brad, too.<br />
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I am a super picky eater and I would like to not be. Brad would also love it if I ate more foods. It's one of our biggest arguments. I know that sometimes it is in my mind and that most of the foods I don't like are healthy for me. I would like to buy more fruits and vegetables and try new ways of cooking them. Ideas? Recipes?<br />
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I love having company for dinner. I also love that it motivates me to get more creative in the kitchen or to at least spend more time in there. Brad and I have had some delicious meals with friends. So, let's do that more. I'll try out some new dishes, including fruits/veggies, and we'll see how it goes. Another bonus is that we tend to clean more when we have company coming over, so there's that.<br />
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Brad and I want to take more walks and hikes. I'd also love to get bicycles and bike to places around town. For instance, our church is about 2, 2.5 miles away and biking would get us there a little faster on Sunday mornings. I don't like exercising unless it is fun. Running is not fun to me. Zumba is fun. Hiking is fun. What do you do to stay healthy?<br />
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Brad wanted this on the list. I support this.<br />
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<a href="http://www.e-tells-tales.com/2012/06/summer-reads.html" target="_blank">Elizabeth's lis</a>t looks fantastic and I need something for by the pool. I read the Fifty Shades trilogy in order to participate in a book club with my sister-in-law. The trilogy made for quick reads, where little thinking was involved. Now and then, that's what you need. Have you read anything good recently? What do you recommend?<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">10. Create a date night jar. Use it.</span><br />
I would love to have a jar with various date night ideas that we use. I like the idea of color-coding popsicle sticks to coordinate with price range. Pinterest has lots of great ideas for the jar and ideas for date nights, so hopefully, this is something we'll get on pretty soon.melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-27331609985444615212012-05-31T10:56:00.001-04:002012-05-31T10:56:40.499-04:00Why Brad Married Me<em>Today's post was written by my pretty amazing husband. I've hinted a few times that it would be nice to have a post from him and he finally obliged. Read on for some serious sweetness...</em><br />
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Why I married Melanie.<br />
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Melanie had asked me a few times before about writing in our blog and since my name is in the website address, I would assume it is required. This can be thought of as an almost comedic blog post but I am serious about my reasons why I married Melanie.<br />
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I married Melanie for 3 reasons; her Appearance, Personality, and Intelligence. Those are probably the very basic of characteristics that everybody looks for when looking for a soul mate but it is all true.<br />
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Melanie has a small body frame and, from the first pictures I had seen of her (before we met), a short pixie-type haircut. I was attracted to how she held herself--tall and cute. Besides, seeing photographs of cute actresses such as Emma Watson and Michelle Williams with short pixie haircuts, she fit the haircut right. She has two simple tattoos on her feet of <a href="http://www.google.com/imgres?hl=en&sa=X&biw=1280&bih=653&tbm=isch&prmd=imvns&tbnid=nTf2MeLCfuj2LM:&imgrefurl=http://www.art.com/gallery/id--a16/pablo-picasso-posters_p5.htm&docid=UxTJYrHPdDFeiM&imgurl=http://cache2.artprintimages.com/p/MED/57/5703/TLBNG00Z/art-print/pablo-picasso-owl.jpg&w=126&h=160&ei=m3bHT9jpNtGM6QH2u7ngDQ&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=1079&vpy=372&dur=2397&hovh=128&hovw=100&tx=114&ty=53&sig=100749083681701475402&page=1&tbnh=124&tbnw=98&start=0&ndsp=22&ved=1t:429,r:14,s:0,i:104" target="_blank">Picasso's sketch of an Owl</a> and, though I do not appreciate it as often, she also has a larger slightly crooked tattoo on her lower back of a Celtic Knot as a nod to her ancestry, I'm sure. <em>[Ed. Note--He swears my tattoo is slightly off-center. I have never noticed this.] </em>Though I do not have any tattoos of my own, I like to see this type of art that tells a great deal about the person wearing it. <br />
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In part summary, Melanie is very cute with her skinny body and short haircut. I am attracted to her look and, assuming she would never wash away her permanent tattoos, I will remain with her.<br />
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Melanie is very good at getting along with me and is a great counterbalance. She is sociable while I am a shy individual. When I first met her, she was more outgoing and talkative with me, forcing me to talk more and become more comfortable. She laughs at my jokes, and knows when to give me a short break if I go overboard on my sarcasm. I knew my parents would love her. She didn't have a dark or troublesome past and she had a niche for being crafty. Crocheting doesn't float my boat, but then again installing the newest computer distro of a Linux Operating System probably isn't her idea of a great weeknight activity. In the same way, she could be less picky in her eating habits, but I would assume she would say I need to not worry about how much is spent on a dinner date. Understanding a person is crucial to everything and the sides of a relationship can be looked at like puzzles pieces that fit together. <br />
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In part summary, Melanie appreciate my good qualities and doesn't drag down on my bad, yet improving, characteristics. She helps everybody out. I assume this is partly why she studied psychology and loves to work with teenagers and young children.<br />
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Speaking of studies, Melanie is intelligent. She apparently has completed two programs in graduate school at a university for a Masters and Educational Specialist Degree in School Psychology. <em>{Ed. Note--"apparently?" I have the student loan debt and diplomas to show it. :)] </em>Even though 7 years studying in higher education comes back in the form of her student loans, it has benefits for myself. Bragging to friends that my wife didn't want to study the extra year for a doctorate because writing a thesis bored her is great, but having free counseling for my first-world mental problems pays for itself after our first visit. Melanie is a bread-winner. I am going great in my career, but, at her rate, it would be hard for me to catch up.<br />
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In part summary, Melanie is a genius. Maybe not so much on the proper uses of a credit card in a clothing store but she excels at having the smarts to be a great helpful friend to all.<br />
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In all other words, I married Melanie because she came into my life quickly and makes me very happy. I had dated a few other women to find a best friend and I found that very soon with Melanie after meeting her. Seemed like a no-brainer that I would agree to spend the rest of my life with a smart, respectful, and beautiful woman. "Where do I sign?"</div>
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<em>Beer and mac & cheese while on honeymoon. </em></div>
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<em>Thanks, San Francisco, for the extra five pounds.</em></div>
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I'm really liking the necklace in the bottom corner and it's made even better when you factor in a 50% discount (yeah, summer job). <br />
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Apparently, I am a fan of tank dresses. <br />
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I don't own a lot of yellow and am really debating the yellow shift dress (bottom left).<br />
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Please throw out some opinions or alternate suggestions. Where are your go-to shops for dresses?<br />
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<em>Sources:</em><br />
<a href="http://shopruche.com/cute-as-a-button-collared-dress.html" target="_blank">Top yellow</a><br />
<a href="http://www.loft.com/loft/product/product%3A281708/LOFT-great-gifts/Cotton-Eyelet-Shift-Dress/281708?colorExplode=false&skuId=11272274&catid=catl000013&productPageType=fullPriceProducts&defaultColor=3099" target="_blank">Bottom yellow</a><br />
<a href="http://shopruche.com/stella-luna-bow-dress-in-red.html" target="_blank">Top red</a><br />
<a href="http://www.jcrew.com/womens_special_sizes/size16/dresses/PRDOVR~72114/99102637563/ENE~1+2+3+22+4294967294+20~~~20+17+4294967097~90~~~~~~~/72114.jsp" target="_blank">Bottom orange</a><br />
<a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=13658&vid=1&pid=136217&scid=136217022" target="_blank">Navy tank dress</a><br />
<a href="http://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresses/latest-love-dress-in-evergreen" target="_blank">Green dress</a><br />
<a href="http://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresses/fit-for-royalty-dress" target="_blank">Blue dress (with v-neck front)</a><br />
<a href="http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=45839&vid=1&pid=905749&scid=905749002" target="_blank">Necklace</a>melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-40945625800320431872012-05-22T14:35:00.002-04:002012-05-23T10:32:32.100-04:00Low-Fat Blueberry SconesI have some bad habits that I need to correct. One of those habits is running out the door with no breakfast and stopping at Starbucks. Guys, I don't even drink coffee. I get a pretentious and expensive hot chocolate. It is so yummy, though, especially with a blueberry scone. In an effort to curb this habit that will break my personal monthly budget, I went hunting for recipes.<br />
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I made the following recipe last night and enjoyed a scone this morning. Brad kept joking with me and calling them "stones." He said that the scones were "good" and he was "afraid [...] to get blueberry on [his] shirt, but it was tasty/interesting...[he] ate it all and appreciated it." He went on to say that he didn't care for the dough and it wouldn't be his go-to breakfast grab. I thought the scones were less sweet than Starbucks and a little heavier. This could have been the case just because it was my first time baking scones, though. Anyway, I enjoyed it and will grab one on my way out tomorrow morning for sure.<br />
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Low-Fat Blueberry Scones<br />
8 servings 6 WW+<br />
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2 C unbleached flour<br />
1/4 C sugar<br />
1/4 tsp salt<br />
1/2 tsp baking soda<br />
1T baking powder<br />
1/4 C frozen butter<br />
3/4 C light buttermilk<br />
1 egg<br />
1 tsp vanilla<br />
1C fresh blueberries<br />
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-Preheat oven to 400*F.<br />
-In a large bowl, mix all of the dry ingredients.<br />
-Using the large holes of a cheese grater, grate the butter into the flour. Mix well.<br />
-In a medium bowl, mix the buttermilk, egg, and vanilla.<br />
-Using a fork, slowly stir the wet ingredients into dry ingredients, until all of the mixture is moistened.<br />
-Do not overwork the dough. Fold in the blueberries.<br />
-Line a cookie sheet with parchment paper. Drop large spoonfuls--DO NOT press or compact. Bake on center rack for 18 minutes.<br />
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I used whole wheat unbleached flour, Splenda, and 12 oz of blueberries. Some of the blueberries didn't stay in the dough, so I probably had 10-11 oz in my scones. Also, I made six scones--serving sizes be damned.<br />
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If you make this, let me know what you think. If you have an even better recipe, pass that along.<br />
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--Melanie<br />
<br />melanieandbradhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06297032974251455374noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2109568054421667089.post-88620803359525694132012-05-07T08:00:00.000-04:002012-05-07T08:00:04.506-04:00What the Psychic Told MeI went to the flea market with my mom and sister this weekend. We walked around for hours and found all kinds of treasures, including a psychic. <div>
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I plunked down $10 for a 10-minute reading and my sister coached me to not give anything away. There were two psychics--sisters--and one held my wedding band and one held my engagement band throughout the reading. At first, they kept it general and informed me that a male in my life with a 'J' name appeared to be turning a new page, but I was drowning while waiting for them. The sisters told me to stop waiting. 'J' would get there, but I couldn't immerse myself in it any longer waiting for him to get it together. (This has some meaning, but I won't get into it right now.)</div>
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Next, I got to ask a question and draw three cards. I asked, very generally, about babies. Seriously--I asked, "Can we talk about babies?" Sister 2 asked if I was pregnant and was relieved to hear me say no. She indicated that a friend asked for a reading to tell the sex of her baby shortly after she found out she was pregnant, but Sister 2 couldn't see a baby. The friend miscarried soon after. Anyway, Sister 1 asked her if she could tell what I would have first, if indeed babies were in my future. They both agreed that they felt babies were in the cards for me and Sister 2 said it kept flipping between boy and girl. She settled on indicating that I would have a boy first, but I would have at least one of each. She was also concerned that the quick flipping meant that I would have twins or triplets. The cards I drew were Resistance, Challenge, and Fertility. Sister 1 felt that I wouldn't have babies right away due to the resistance and challenge and Sister 2 backed her up, indicating that she saw me pregnant next year. They said that with the fertility card on me that I was OK, but my husband may need to get checked. Difficulties in getting pregnant may be linked to his swimmers was the take-home message. </div>
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I was allowed two questions and for the second one I just asked for a general next 12 months reading. I drew three more cards. I don't remember what these three cards were, but the sisters agreed that my husband was stressed. They said that the stress he was under, most likely due to career changes, could be affecting our pregnancy attempts. They advised that he take a chill pill because everything would turn out OK for us. They felt nothing bad surrounding us, just some stress on my husband's part.</div>
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I thought the reading was pretty interesting and parts of it rang very true. I wanted to capture it here so that we can visit it again later and see how much of it rings true in a year. Have you ever had your cards or palm read? Did any of it ring true for you?</div>
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